Sex Toys & Masturbation – The Facts & Myths

If you grew up in little old Ireland like I did, you are probably familiar with the phrases “masturbation is a sin” or “masturbation will make you go blind”.

The first time you heard this was probably in school by the school nun or from the guys in your class who had got the same lesson from the school priest. Believe it or not, the Catholic Church long believed that masturbation was a sin (they probably still do!). In fact they believed (and again probably still do) that using any form of contraception was a sin also because they believed you were killing tiny little human beings and therefore should not be using sex for any other reason other than conception. Pocket pussy

Thank God we’ve moved on from those days – but there is still a large section of people who believe that any form of masturbation is wrong or abnormal. Hopefully in this article I can clear up many of the misconceptions people have around sex toys and masturbation.

Only for Singles or those with a bad sex life… Yes it’s probably fair to say that those without a partner probably masturbate more often than those who have one. But that doesn’t mean people in loving, sex filled relationships don’t masturbate. If you’re one of the lucky ones, you probably enjoy masturbating together as part of your exciting sex life. In fact a recent study shows that 50% of respondents have used a toy at least once in their lifetime. 40% of women admitted using a sex toy with their partner during sex or foreplay.

Sex Toys & Masturbation are Addictive Masturbation and the use of adult toys is not an addiction. It’s true that some people can become reliant on using sex toys in order to orgasm, but there are no withdrawal symptoms associated with the use of sex toys. Male sex toy

If she masturbates and has a sex toy… she won’t need a man…. How ridiculous is that. I’ve never had or heard of a sex toy that wakes me up in the morning with a smile and a cuddle like a man could. Many men are afraid of sex toys, but that’s because they are brought up believing that it’s their little man is what rules the world. Like men, women masturbate for a very specific reason…

Guys only masturbate because they’re sad losers… The image of a man masturbating using a sex toy will draw so many different pictures in different peoples minds. Some will like it, while others will scream “eeeewwwwww” in disgust. I personally feel it’s quite sad that the image of a man using a sex toy to masturbate generally speaking, conjures up an image of a sad old man sitting at home watching sleazy porn. Men, just like women need to explore their bodies and understand what it is that makes them tick, or better still… work on their ejaculation control!

It’s not natural Well what can I say? There are many examples of animals in the wild who masturbate, it’s not just a Human phenomena. And why with brains like ours, is it so unnatural to have the ability to create wonderful tools to enhance our sexual pleasure? Need I say more?

 

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